Thursday, October 10, 2013

Why You Should Ignore Him to Get Him Back





You’re on the hunt for a plan to get your boyfriend back. Who could blame you? Your happiest moments were with him. You miss him like crazy and no other guy can even come close to him. It’s impossible to consider moving on when you are still so desperately in love with him. Although things feel overwhelming at the moment and you’re likely feeling as though you’ll never win him back, there’s a way that may just work for you. It does require some willpower and patience, but if you can muster up those two things, you’ll be on your way to recapturing his heart and pulling him back into your life again. 

A great plan to get your boyfriend back is to ignore him. That’s right. You’re going to stop chasing after him and instead pretend as though he doesn’t exist. At first glance, it seems as though it can’t possibly work. After all, since the break up you’ve probably been running after him trying to get him to understand why you two belong together. It’s what most of us do after a break up. Our panic button is pushed and we launch into overdrive trying to convince the person we love that their future is with us. In many cases it borders on harassment. Your ex may have even told you to stop but you couldn’t. You just wanted him back so badly.

Beginning now you’re going to take on a new stance when it comes to rekindling that romance. You’re going to act as though you’re fine with the way things are and you’re going to seem as though you’re moving on from the break up. Naturally, you’re not. But for now you’ve got to pull on your acting chops and show him that life without him isn’t nearly as bad as you’ve been making it out to be. 

The general rule when it comes to ignoring an ex is to give it two to three weeks. Right now that seems like forever, but if you approach it on a daily basis, the time will fly by. Use whatever resources you need to avoid calling him or sending him a message. Maybe you can hang out with friends more or start working out in the evenings. If there’s a class you’ve been meaning to take, now is the time. You just need to fill in your days and nights over the course of a few weeks so you’re not contacting him.

The psychology of how this plan to get your boyfriend back works is very simple. Once your guy realizes that you’re actually gone for good, he’s going to have second thoughts. He’s going to start wondering how you got over him so quickly and why you’re not ringing his phone off the hook anymore trying to win him back. In other words, his ego is going to take over and long to have you back. 

Use every ounce of inner strength you have to ignore your boyfriend if you’re intent on getting him back. The difference in his attitude once he feels the distance from you will be remarkable.

 



Saturday, August 31, 2013

Tips to Help Get Him Back for Good

People make all sorts of decisions in life. If you have just found out that your ex no longer wants to be with you then you need to realize that there are things you can do. If you want to find out how you could save your relationship, you need to follow the tips below. Getting your ex boyfriend back is going to come easier for you than you thought. So put the following to use now and you will get him back fast.

Whatever made him want to leave you is something you need to figure out. There was something that caused your ex to want to dump you and if you are not sure what that was you need to figure it out now. Get to the answer before it becomes too late. Waiting to hear from your ex as to why they left you is not going to get you where you want. You need to take charge of the situation you are in and resolve the problems fast.

Your ex boyfriend is not going to want to hear that you are still not sure why the relationship
ended. If you are asking your friends to find the answers for you, stop right now. You do not want your ex to know that you still do not get why he left you. In order for you two to get back together again you must find the answer. Look over the relationship and think about everything you did. Was there something you were doing or saying that your ex did not like? Whatever the reason may have been you need to sort it out now.

No matter how many arguments you two got in throughout your relationship, they were not the reason he dumped you. Getting him back again is something you are going to be able to do simply by talking to him again. Ignoring your ex at all costs is not going to help you win him back. If he calls you, answer it. Do not let it go unanswered. After a few tries without you answering your phone, he could give up. And the last thing you are going to want is for your ex to think you do not want anything to do with him again. So prevent that from happening by talking to him. Get a hold of him tonight to let him know you still care enough about him to put the past in the past.

Holding a grudge against him because he left you is again something you want to avoid. As angry as you might be, blaming it all on him is not going to make it all better. Your ex knows what he has done. He is aware of the mistakes he made. If you ever want him back again you need to let him know that you are aware of your mistakes too. Admit you were wrong and prove to him that you are ready to make things right. That could be all your ex needs to want to take you back again. So give it a shot tonight and see where it takes your relationship with him. It might just be what he needs before he takes you back again.

Improve on all the things you did in the past. You two know already what works and does not work between you. If you want your relationship with him to last this time around then you need to avoid those same mistakes. Do not bring up the things he has done wrong because he does not want to hear about them. You are not going to want to talk about all the mistakes and bad decisions you made in the past, are you? So if you want to get back together with him you will need to avoid bringing the past up. Your flaws are not going to go away on their own. So let your ex know you are aware of them and do what it takes to fix them. Improving on your mistakes from the past are what will help you two get back together again fast.

Before you make your first moves with your ex, make sure you keep the tips above in mind. The last thing you would want is to say or do the wrong thing that could force him out of your life for good. If you are serious about getting back together with your ex again then you need to follow the methods above. Do not take your chance in thinking you know everything you need to win him back. One wrong move could be all it takes to erase him from your life forever. And you are not going to want to risk losing him another time now are you? Follow these tips now and you will be able to get your ex boyfriend back.

If you are serious about getting back the man you love - you must do this one thing now before it's too late. 


A Helpful Video of Michael Fiore

Here's a video of Michael Fiore talking about texting back your ex.


 Click Here to Learn How to Get Him Back With Text Messages!